I think we can all agree that sex is pretty damn awesome. What some of us can’t stand is what so often comes with sex: feelings.
I know that statement might make it sound like anyone who wants NSA sex is a psychopath, but I feel the opposite! Sex is a fundamental physical need. We crave sex. A lot of us need sex to be happy and content in our daily lives… however, sometimes we aren’t craving emotion. Maybe you just got out of a relationship, maybe you have enough to deal with on your own, maybe you don’t want emotional connection right now, maybe you just want to have sex and that’s it!
So how do you go about finding someone who’s okay with sex without feelings? Fuck buddies are the solution to this. Finding someone who you can have NSA sex with who is reliable, STD free, and drama-free can be hard! How can you find a partner (or a few partners) who you can rely on for sex but also rely on to not catch feelings? Here’s how to find a fuck buddy using free hookup apps like FWB world!
1. Get on dating apps!
Dating apps are a hotbed for other people who want to hook up without anything serious! This is where you can easily connect with a ton of people who want to have sex without getting emotional and you can connect fast!
So, get on Tinder, download Grindr, get on all the location-based sites! Make your profile hint that you’re looking for fun and aren’t interested in anything serious and start messaging people. You’ll be surprised at how many people are probably looking for the same thing.
2. Lay down the law early
If you don’t already have “looking for some fun” in your bio, make sure you let the other person know that you’re not looking to get tied down early in the conversation! You don’t want them to go getting any false hope or preconceived notions about what they can expect from you.
So be upfront and honest that you want to just fool around. Don’t worry about scaring people away, you might be pleasantly surprised about how many people will be down!
The key to keeping things from getting complicated is always being honest. Don’t cut things off if you sense a tiny amount of tension, talk it out.
Let the other person know how you’re feeling, what you want from them (in bed and otherwise), and if they piss you off. This will keep things from getting messy!
4. If things get complicated, politely end it
Sex and emotions are often closely intertwined for people, so things might get complicated. It’s only natural. So, if things get complicated, use that open line of communication that you’ve established and cut things off.
Don’t yell, don’t scream, don’t be condescending. Be respectful and agree to part ways.
5. If they get crazy… don’t pull your punches
Now, if things get out of hand don’t be afraid to let your anger and discomfort show. Sometimes that’s what it takes to really drive the point home. End it, don’t talk to them, block their number, do what it takes to get away!